I'm sorry this has happened to you, but don't let this make you think that there is something wrong with you. Because there's not, you are a perfect human being. so is everybody because everybody has their own definition of perfect. But that doesn't mean someone can shove their definition on to you or anybody. Let me tell you right now, there is NOTHING wrong with you. This experience leaves a mark, but don't let that mark hurt you. Let it give you power to push past the stereotypes and shameful comments, let it give you the power to grow from your "imperfections". I know all this sucks, but grow from it, don't coward in it.