September 2012, I got in a huge fight at a party because my friend decided to hit her boyfriend, I only try to stop the fight but end up being a victim of cyber-bullied by my ex boyfriend and his friends. See my boyfriend really bought insecurity to my life and always cheated on my so one day I decided to seek revenge and cheat on him as well and it led me getting a punch right in my face when he found out. Back to the story, after the fight it was my ex boyfriend and his friends party and they got so mad and went on twitter on started bashing everyone who was involved but for some reason I was the main person they talk about. They went overboard started lying and telling twitter how I sleep around, and i'm a leader and at young adult church and they started tweeting how after church is done I will have sex with this person and that person and it was sooooo not true, I even had folks that I don't even know joining in lying and saying "I slept with her to", I was so confused and had no one to talk to. I just kept praying asking Lord not for my ex boyfriend to not jump in and guess what he did and EXPOSED ME! Talk about my hidden secrets, and made my past look like the future. I never felt so disgusted in my life, they went in till 1am. They even made my sister cry because she was so hurt on what they said about me. The next day I thought I was gonna go to school and everyone will forget. No one talk to me. For months, I was alone, guys were trying to talk to me just to have sex and I even got kick out of this gospel group i'm in because they thought I would ruin the image of a Christian. I thought the storm would never go away but one thing I refused to do was give up. I refused to leave schools, or environments, in fact through me tears and sadness at night I made sure I smiled in the public because I didnt want those guys to win! and now i'm standing strong as ever, I still have people talking about me but I always shake it off. You can't let people win when it comes to things like this, the storm may be extremely long but it really won't last always. I'm one of the bravest people in the world now because I allowed God to fight my battles, don't be afraid, and if you fall get right back up!
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